BeNaughty Review: Scam or Safe Place for Casual Fun?

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Casual dates, friendship and fun is what offers. About six months ago, we decided to join and see whether it’s actually worth joining.

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Does it live up to what the sales page promises? Let’s cut straight to the chase.

Point Blank: Is It A Scam?

Dating sites don’t have a good reputation online, particularly if they are of the ‘adult’ variety. Unfortunately there ARE a lot scams out there. These can be categorised in the following two ways:

  • Scam sites: In other words, the whole operation is a scam and they’re just out to take your money.
  • Legitimate site, scam profiles: The site and business is 100% legit, but you unfortunately find fake profiles that are just trying to lure you in to using another paid service or escort services.

It falls into the second category and that’s not necessarily a bad thing. Let me tell you why.

The internet is full of spammers and scammers, there’s no way to ignore it. It’s just like the real world. It is a legitimate site, but sometimes fake profiles will fall through the cracks. The moderators do a good job of deleting them, however, so you should mostly deal with real people.

However, you’ll still have to keep a watchful eye. If you’re 55 and you get a sudden offer from a beautiful 18-year old, think twice before trying to hook up with her. Sorry, but it’s likely there’s something more to the story. Just use your common sense.

Otherwise, the site is full of people that are looking for the same thing you are. Regular folk who want some casual and kinky fun. There’s nothing wrong with that, is there? Just make sure you sift through the ones that look obviously spammy and you’ll be fine.

What is it exactly?

Dating site or escort service? Webcam shows or real people?

For those of you who are a bit confused about the service: it’s essentially a dating site where people go to look for casual fun, friendships and long-term relationships. You can also use it for a bit of harmless flirting as well, in case you don’t want to actually meet people face to face.

There are options for every kind of person, whether you’re looking for casual no-strings-attached fun or something more serious.

Loads of people instantly assume it’s all about sex, but it’s not 100% like that (we’re not saying you won’t find it, though!).

The idea is more that it’s an adult site, so you can place your (naughty) interests on your profile and people won’t be freaking out about it. You can then search based on people that are looking for casual fun, dates that may lead to something more, friendship or an actual relationship. It’s all possible and the site connects you to like-minded people that are up for the same thing you are.

Plenty of members have found one-night stands, while others have even found “the one” on the site. So it’s all possible. Check out the forums for more testimonials and success stories!

Mood: Cheeky, Fun, Honest

As the name of the site suggests, there’s no room for stuffy and frigid attitudes. People are very ‘real’ here and you will know exactly what they like and don’t like. If you want to know what people like to do in the bedroom, it will probably say so on their profiles!

You can choose to upload naughty photos and videos as well, within reason. It’s all up to you, though. You don’t have to reveal more than you want to, but it always helps to be as honest as you can when meeting new people! After all, you want people to find your profile and connect with you!

Join the Forum and Take Part in the Community Chats

One of the cool features of is that it has its own forum for the community of members. Perfect if you have any questions, concerns or are just looking to introduce yourself to like-minded people in a group setting.

Most people are very friendly towards those that have just joined the site and have a bunch of ‘stupid’ questions. We’ve all been there! It’s quite active as well so you will feel like you’re part of something, which is always a plus!

Who are the Users?

The classic a/s/l question.Honestly, it really varies.

The members of the forums are usually a bit older and tend to be the ones that are up for friendship and chatting, whereas when you search through the profiles you’ll find people from 18 and up and interested in pretty much anything. It’s a melting pot of people from all sorts of background, nationalities and ages.

Don’t worry. You will find what you are looking for!

Real User Testimonials

These are just a few selected testimonials from the official forum. Head over to their site and have a look around. Just a quick read over the threads will give you everything you need to know. These are all real people with great experiences.

Some have found love, while others have found random encounters. There are those that adore the site just for the friendship they find in the community. You’ll see people that are looking for casual fun, while others are simply wanting to get over a painful divorce. You’ll find people from all walks of life with varying degrees of the naughty factor!

Have a look:

Selection of BeNaughty Testimonials

Selection of BeNaughty Testimonials

Free Trial: Try Before You Buy

One of the great things about it is that you can sign up completely FREE. It doesn’t take long before you can start browsing a list of singles that know exactly what they want. If it’s not for you, simply cancel your membership. So there’s really no excuse not to check the service out.

What are the prices like?

It is in the same ballpark as most general dating sites in terms of prices. They also offer some very hefty discounts if you decide to join for longer than just a single month at a time.

We suggest going for the 3-month option at least, as 1 month isn’t really enough time to get to know people on the forums and through private chats. Plus, once you see how much fun it is we’re sure you won’t want to end your membership.

In terms of exact pricing, you’re going to have to join the free membership to find out. This isn’t some sort of con to make you join, but it’s just the way their system works. They give you specific discounts based on the time of year, how long you want to join for, etc. So it varies.

Don’t worry, though, once you join (for 100% free) you can see your personalised offers and make a decision.


  1. James Whites says

    Thanks for the review! Signed up a few weeks ago and have had a positive experience so far. Glad I read your tips on avoiding scam profiles as it really helped me weed out the chancers!

    Have had one date so far and that went very well indeed ;-) Seeing her again in a couple of weeks! Loving It.

    • Tom Frater says

      Hey James, thanks for your comment. Really appreciate it. Yes, the site is great as long as you use a bit of common sense. The admins do quite a decent job there, so you shouldn’t have too many issues anyway.

      Glad to hear you got yourself a date! Plenty more where that came from! Any other questions let me know :)

  2. Jonathan C says

    Hey! Thanks for this, am still on the fence about joining. I’m slightly older than you (well, just guessing from your photo!) and I’m actually in my 50s. Trying to get back into the dating game after my divorce. You’ve said that it’s for everyone, but just want to double check that there are plenty of girls in my age range as well?

    Thanks in advance.

    • Tom Frater says

      Hey Jonathan! First of all, sorry to hear about your divorce. Good effort in wanting to get into online dating. :-) It’s good fun!

      In answer to your question, it’s a resounding YES! In fact, I’d maybe say that it’s split right down the middle. There are quite a few older women in a similar situation as you, looking for a bit of fun/dates after a difficult divorce. I’ve actually had a date with one in the past and she was definitely a bit of a yummy mummy (aka milf haha).

      You should definitely check the site out. There’s a 100% risk-free trial so you can always take the site for a test drive before deciding whether it’s for you.

      Hope that helped! Any other questions let me know.

  3. says

    Hi Tom! I’m having one hell of a time trying to memberize on benaughty. I have plenty of money and my credit is good but neither my bank or VISA and Mastercard will authorize the transaction. Not even the 3 day trial. Any suggestions? Is it safe to use the “pay by check or money order” option? Thanks!

    • Tom Frater says

      Hi Todd,

      I haven’t had this issue. Have you tried talking to your bank?

      I apologise for the delayed response. I’ve had over 3000 SPAM messages to go through to get to the real ones ha!

  4. says

    be naughty has a scam going where you join and subscriptions are taken and re billed automaticly every month,you have to cancel rebilling in order to stop the payment coming out of your account,after going through the process they send a cancellation code to your email,well low and behold the email never arrives and after trying several times to cancel you have to send an e mail to customer services,and they e mail back no problems but guess what they cant help,they want you to ring a number god knows how much it costs and they keep you hanging on and talking crap for ages,so after all this it is easier to contact your bank and get another card issued,now tell me this is not a scam!!! R heaton

    • Tom Frater says

      Hi Heaton,

      I haven’t experienced this. Surely a company of their size wouldn’t scam people, or is this me being Naive.

      Have you checked your SPAM filters?

  5. says

    Benaughty is a total scam ive talked to over 100 women and so far about 40 % have been camera strippers who wantvyou to pay to watch about 45 % are ” women” that there orofiles say they are close to you but they are in ghana and asking for money to come to you about 10 % are women who want you to get verified which cost money and 5% are just computer generated responses that dont male sense. Administration sucks completely try cancelling you cant you have to close your bank account to get out of it. Its a total scam

    • Tom Frater says

      Hi Ted,

      Yeah it is pretty annoying the amount of women that expect you to pay to see them. I wish they would change this.

  6. says

    I joined for 3 day VIP. cancelled the auto charge and received the charge of 39.00 anyway!

    I also wrote them over 10 times reporting scammers and asked them to contact me.

    No response.

    Many of the scammers have had the LINK removed to report them????!!!!

    I asked why?

    No response?

    Then they for some reason opened me up another account with my same ID except put NC in front of it????? !!!

    I asked them to turn it off and they auto responded it had been cancelled. GOOD!

    I called the number on the cancellation email and it was an answering service not the company.. I asked for a direct number and they said they didnt have a way to contact them by phone or email. I asked for a supervisor and held for over 20 minutes. then pressed 1 and left a callback message. $5.00 says NO RESPONSE.

    there is a pop up that says thanks for turning in scammer and you will be reimbursed money for membership or given free membership for turning in scammer but no link to opt for it???

    i have turned in at least 10 with proof as to their having fraud photos and on and nothing back in response and the profiles are still on there.

    why are most of the ones i am turning in have the report link removed?

    why are the ones that i turned in still on there? one was on 76 sites!!! and the photo was over 4 years old!

    the number to contact the answering service for this company is 212 796 5746 but keep in mind it is ONLY an answering service for them.

    GOOD LUCK and be careful.. over 50% are scammers or wanting you to go into their Cam room.

  7. says

    How do you delete your account?
    I payed 13.99 for the week and to say it was the biggest waste of money is an understatement.Im on it less than an hour and 14 profiles have attempted to scam me!!Have not been able to get chatting with ANY legitimate profiles!!

  8. henry says

    okay i tired this last year, talked to some girls but i didnt get what i wanted which was casual sex. frankly after reviewing other sites, i am thinking about going back to BN, however this time i do want casual fun with a real girl. what is the best advice to find real girls in my area?

  9. horace griffin says

    Well I’m kind of disappointed there always Says error when I Try To Go Pay For A Plan ..

  10. says

    benaughty lol more like beconned there are some genuine women on there but be prepared to start the hunt for the needle in a very big hay stack and thats if the site even gives you a chance to look .
    you join for free and are bombarded with possible requests or you may see someone nice you like but because your only free member you cannot read or communicate with them without paying.
    once you have paid ,here the problems start ,youve paid so lets start searching for miss or mrs right wrong after i started to search and was soon greeted with the message you searched to many times you have been blocked try again later ,i thought surly this cant be right ive paid to to search ,this must be wrong ill may have to wait 5 or 10 mins and i can start again well 5 hours later and still waiting ,
    this happened 3 times a day when i contacted them about this no reply so decide to contact a on-line site mod when i told her she said she had never heard of this but then came back and said your only allowed to view 50 profiles per day or you get blocked out but i said this what i paid my money for and how will i know ive searched 50 better start start to count every time i look at a profile or press they enter key.
    to the benaughty site the term search really means look at because you dont even have to search before the blocked message appears just moving along pages will do it ,i was then told have you used the chat rooms yea iv had look but im not really into talking to someone while there watching someone masturbating or chatting to someone in the usa and there’s only a handfull of uk women in there rooms and they just don’t float my boat well sir i was told your cup is half full look there then do a bit of searching but i don’t want to do that i paid to search and that’s what i want to do sorry nothing i can do good bye.
    next problem you will come across when your be plagued with fake profiles see someone you like wrong again you message and wow they message back you message and they message back even better quick let send another they then send you something out of context then more out of context then you realise there auto mated you been messaging a robot this will happen all most every contact you make until you will not before sure if are they real or not
    you’ll get to the point of just saying hello to anyone even if there’s no attraction
    there are some real women there but be prepared to hunt for them and that’s if you get passed the being blocked con they have applied to keep you there longer .
    unless your really shy be better just going out for the evening and telling any girl in a group that you think there cute and could you talk to them because you probably have better luck

    so be prepared a major head ache and that someone is making a hell lot of money from this site and living it up on your cash

    so good luck
    ps if you use skype now you wont after going on benaught you will know what im taking about when and if you go on there

    • Tom Frater says

      Thanks for the review. It’s great to read some honest reviews from other individuals, it’s just a shame to see only a few positive ones and quite a few negative ones.

  11. says

    the be naughty web site is a fake all around. the women basically say the same statements when you are e mailing them on the site or texting them on the site. you chat with them for a short time and then they all say the same thing “do you want to talk dirty” . any time you ask questions on things in there town to meet they never answer the questions. this is a shure thing that there is some one other than the real person answering you its an employee from be naughty. you are not talking to a real woman or man. you will never see this person but the site will take your money each month. my suggestion is take the money you would spend on this and get a massage with a happy ending…

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